Tell me if this rings familiar for you:
You check your phone every 12 minutes. Your shoulders sit hunched at your ears. You lie awake at 3 AM rehearsing tomorrow's to-do list.
This isn't urgency. This is panic.
I know, because this is me, on some days. But I also know that anxiety likes to yell when a simple, consistent reminder would be enough. Biology sacrifices efficiency for effectiveness, right?
Real urgency moves fast without the frantic energy. It's the surgeon's steady hands during a 6-hour operation. The firefighter's calm voice while coordinating a rescue. The chess grandmaster's quick decisions under tournament pressure.
They work with intensity, not anxiety. Speed, not stress.
Here's how we do the same.
Separate the doing from the outcome
Stress comes from attachment to results you can't control.
You can't control if your client says yes. You can't control if your book becomes a bestseller. You can't control if your startup gets funded.
But you can control your daily actions.
The solution is outcome independence. You focus 100% on the process and 0% on the result. This isn't positive thinking, it's strategic thinking.
Here's your daily practice: Every morning, write down three actions you'll complete today. Not goals. Not outcomes. Actions. "Send five cold emails" instead of "land a new client." "Write 500 words" instead of "finish the chapter."
At the end of each day, check off what you completed. Nothing else matters. Did you do the work? Yes or no.
This shifts your nervous system from result-anxiety to process-confidence. You feel productive because you are productive, regardless of external outcomes.
Work in 90-minute sprints
My brain can't maintain peak focus for 8 hours. Trying to do so creates the exhaustion that feels like stress. This makes working on anything outside of 9-to-5 work hours impossible.
Instead, work in 90-minute focused sprints followed by 20-minute breaks. This matches our natural ultradian rhythms: the biological cycles that regulate your energy throughout the day. (As opposed to the circadian ones, which manage sleep-wake rhythm.)
Here's your sprint protocol: Set a timer for 90 minutes. Turn off all notifications. Work on one task only. When the timer rings, take a 20-minute break. Walk outside, stretch, or grab a glass of water. Don't check email or social media during breaks.
Most people can handle three of these sprints per day. That's 4.5 hours of deep work, which is more than most people accomplish in a full 8-hour day.
The key is intensity during work blocks and complete detachment during breaks. No guilt about resting. No working during breaks. The rhythm creates momentum without burnout.
Use a 2-minute stress check
Stress accumulates like sediment in a riverbed. Small tensions pile up until they create a dam that blocks your flow. Again, this makes doing anything not required during our day jobs totally impossible.
Every 2 hours, pause and scan your body. Are your shoulders tight? Is your jaw clenched? Are you holding your breath?
These physical tension points are stress indicators. They signal that you're working from anxiety instead of urgency.
How to reset: Take three deep breaths that expand your belly, not your chest. Roll your shoulders back and down. Unclench your jaw. Relax your tongue against the floor of your mouth.
This isn't meditation. It's maintenance. Like checking your car's oil every few hundred miles.
Set a phone alarm for every 2 hours. When it goes off, do the body scan and reset. This prevents stress from accumulating and keeps you in the urgent-but-calm zone.
Create your "Good Enough" standard
Perfectionism disguises itself as high standards. Or things you need to learn first, or experience you need to have first.
Really, it's procrastination with a sophisticated vocabulary.
When you demand perfection, you create analysis paralysis. You spend 3 hours polishing a paragraph. You redesign your website for the fourth time. You research for 6 months before starting.
This isn't quality work. It's fear work.
Instead, define "good enough" before you start. What's the minimum viable version that serves its purpose?
For a presentation, good enough might be: clear slides, logical flow, practiced once. For a business proposal, good enough might be: problem identified, solution outlined, pricing included.
Write your "good enough" criteria at the top of your task list. When you hit those criteria, you're done. Ship it. Move on.
You can always improve version 2.0, but you can't improve something that doesn't exist.
Schedule your worry sessions
Anxiety wants to interrupt your work every 15 minutes. It taps you on the shoulder with "what if" scenarios and worst-case planning.
Instead of fighting these thoughts, schedule them.
Set aside 15 minutes each day for dedicated worry time. Write down every concern, fear, and potential problem. Get them out of your head and onto paper.
After 15 minutes, close the notebook. If anxiety interrupts your work later, tell it: "I'll address this during tomorrow's worry session."
This isn't suppression. It's compartmentalization. You're not ignoring your concerns—you're processing them efficiently instead of letting them leak into your productive hours.
Most worries seem less threatening when you examine them in scheduled sessions rather than letting them ambush your workflow.
Build your recovery rituals
Elite athletes don't just train hard. They recover hard.
Your recovery rituals are as important as your work rituals. They signal to your nervous system that it's safe to downshift from urgency to rest.
Create three recovery rituals: one for transitions between work blocks, one for the end of your workday, and one for the end of your week.
For work block transitions, try this: stand up, stretch your arms overhead, take five deep breaths, and say "that block is complete."
For end of workday, try this: review what you accomplished, write tomorrow's three priority actions, and physically close your laptop.
For end of week, try this: review the week's wins, plan next week's priorities, and do something completely unrelated to work for 2 hours.
These rituals create clear boundaries between work intensity and life recovery. Without boundaries, urgency becomes chronic stress.
Call it the calm sprinter's advantage
Urgency without anxiety is your competitive advantage.
While others burn out from constant stress, you maintain sustainable intensity. While they exhaust themselves with worry, you channel that energy into action.
The result? You move faster, think clearer, and last longer than the frantic crowd.
This isn't about working less. It's about working better. It's about finding the sweet spot between lazy and frantic—the zone where you're fully engaged but not overwhelmed.
Start with one technique from this article. Master it for a week. Then add another. (Be sure to record your progress!)
Your goals are important. Your sanity is more important.
We can have both. Let’s get it!